TO MY 'SPECIAL' FRIENDS

Today is one of the special days of my life. The day of fullness. The day of celebration. When friends long lost; meet again to make up for lost times. I see you,you and you better than where we left off with lots of adventurous stories to fill the day. It is not how long you have been away, that matters but how well you have lived your life and how well mine has fared too. Though the journey is still on- going and we both did not have an equal share of life adventures, I pray the end will be beautifully beautiful. Signed YOUR FRIEND

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