…WEAR A TIGHT PANT
Jasmine learnt from her aunt that when a man tells you he loves you, you need to weigh it on the scale of time and not on the weight of the moment.
She learnt that emotional feelings and utterances can be inspired by popular circumstances and spur of the moment.
She also learnt that candle night and sumptuous dinners doesn’t equal true love. This she learnt is also momentary and could be done almost by anybody.
She also learnt that true love is real and not a myth. When you find one or one finds you, your heart tingles.
Jasmine, also had a hard time believing that spoken words doesn’t always equal love. She further learnt that words and actions also does not equal true love. This she saw from the late night movies at grandma’s house that words and actions could be acted to make a fool of a vulnerable bae.
She is most surprised at how often men and women used the words “BAE and BOO” without any endearment in their hearts. That’s why, she often refers to Fred as FRED nothing more.
Jasmine, further learnt from her next door neighbor that been someone’s wife; doesn’t mean they will not try to cheat on you if the occasion rises. She often hears her uncle Lane telling his friends that it’s a man’s world. Many I’m sorry and exotic dinners will make the pain go away. She observed he was right anyway.
Jasmine did not understand why Mr. Cole played wife with his daughter, until her mother warned her sternly to mind her business. Such business, are often hard to mind she thought aloud.
Jasmine, now know and have seen a lot, so she decided to wear a tight pant; until someone strong, eligible and pristine un-tighten it _ so did jasmine.
This is one month of the year where expectations are high, anxiety and frustration bloom for many. It is that time when you begin to question whether it will be or not. My very nice friend and colleague once shared with me, that in life, people will always have expectations- you also have expectations. – When will you marry? Married- when are you having children? – Child comes. When are you having another child… and it keeps coming. It is life, don’t get mad, many of them mean well but shirk mockers. It is often a great challenge and sometimes a shaming experience when you don’t have what you should at a time or the things that comes naturally to others is often a jungle toggle for you. Meanwhile, at some point you will be disrespected by those who once respected you especially if they are more privileged than you in acquiring these life assets. They begin to address you in terms of their experience gained where you are lagging. Handle it well. Wow! It is a tough place to b
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